Navigating Deep Connections: Awakening, Isolation, and Embodied Truth with Ashtyn Monea
When you feel everything so deeply, relationships can become both your greatest mirror and your hardest lesson. In this powerful conversation, Jill Hart (The Coach’s Alchemist) and multidimensional mentor Ashtyn Monea explore what it means to stay grounded, open-hearted, and fully embodied while awakening to higher levels of consciousness.
They dive into:
💫 The illusion of “instant awakening” and what true embodiment really takes
🌒 Navigating isolation, gaslighting, and disconnection during spiritual growth
🔥 Integrating the masculine and feminine to alchemize shadow into soul
🌀 How timelines, somatic wisdom, and soul-level attunement shape our evolution
🌿 Why the real path to ascension begins with surrender, grounding, and integration
If you’ve ever felt like you’re “too much,” “too sensitive,” or just not fully seen—this episode will remind you that your depth is your gift.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: When you feel everything so deeply, relationships can become both your greatest mirror and your hardest lesson. In this episode, we explore how to stay open-hearted and grounded while navigating connection, isolation, and the path to becoming fully seen and met at any level of your soul. Hi, and welcome to the UWorld Order Showcase Podcast, where we feature life health transformational coaches and spiritual entrepreneurs stepping up to be the
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: The change they seek in the world.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I'm your host, Jill Hart, the Coaches Alchemist, on a mission to help coaches and entrepreneurs amplify their voice, monetize their mission, and get visible. If you're ready to start attracting premium clients without chasing algorithms or hunting people down like a banshee on a mission, head on over to Coachesalchemist.com and schedule your free client acquisition audit. It's the first step to building a business where your clients seek you out.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: other than you having to hunt them down. Today, we are chatting with Ashton.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Ammonia?
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::Ashtyn Monea: Monia.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Okay, Ashton is the teacher… is a teacher, seer, and mentor known for her work in healing, embodiment, and higher consciousness. She brings a powerful blend of multidimensional awareness and grounded practicality to help individuals reconnect with their true essence
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: and embody their highest potential. Specializing in masculine and feminine integration, Ashton has a unique ability to alchemize shadow into soul, leading to deep transformation. Welcome to the show, Ashton. It's great to have you with us.
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::Ashtyn Monea: I'm so glad to be here with you, Jill. I'm very much so looking forward to our conversation today.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Me too! We're gonna, like, dive into some areas that are, like, They're so yummy.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So let me ask you, what's the most significant thing, in your opinion, as individuals we can do to make an impact on how the world is going?
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::Ashtyn Monea: Hmm.
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::Ashtyn Monea: We can shift our energy inward. There's so much that is regularly asking for our energy to go outward.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Like, if we're doom scrolling, institutionalized education, the opinions of others, family dynamics, relational dynamics, shadow pattern, all of those things are outside of us.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Though we might have to deal with them internally, they have originated from somewhere that is outside of the true essence of who we are.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so, to really shift our focus, shift our energy, like, really call back in ourselves and go deep inside of our bodies.
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::Ashtyn Monea: which I also find is a wellspring for so much more than the physical, because there's these openings that will happen the more that we go internal.
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::Ashtyn Monea: It's like discovering worlds inside of worlds, inside of our own body and soul, and in that place, it's so much easier to collapse the illusion
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::Ashtyn Monea: The false conditioning, the programming, the ancestral bloodline, inheritance that we have come into that's highly dysfunctional.
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::Ashtyn Monea: from inside of ourselves, because it's so much more closely related to the core of truth and who we are, and so I highly recommend going internal, internal, internal.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love that, and it's so true. We were just… I was sharing with you an experience I was having just before we came on here, and as you're talking, I'm thinking.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: what I was doing was allowing myself to get moved into an experience someone else was having.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: and seeing how that felt, and it didn't feel all that great to me, and I find myself shifting. And we do that all the time. We don't think about it, but when we doom scroll, or we get connected with, even…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Even good experiences can drag you out of being centered in the experience that you're supposed to be having
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: In your own being.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So it's interesting. To me, it's interesting how these things kind of, like.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Show up, and then there's that mirror there that says.
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::Ashtyn Monea: See? That's how it works.
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::Ashtyn Monea: There's so much of, like, the autoresponse, and that's also what I'm meaning when I'm calling or inviting us each into ourselves, because we oftentimes, as you were saying, we don't notice in the moment that this is happening, but the more we go internal, the more aware we become
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::Ashtyn Monea: of how prevalent our energy is going out into spaces that might actually not be as productive or soul-shifting as we would want to be if we're here, for example, to create a new paradigm, which I know I am, and I'm sure you are, and so many listeners also are.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it's designed that way. You know, you've got news, and you've got all of the… this is gonna be, like, we're gonna get together, we're gonna do it! Whatever it is, you know, on both sides.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's just, like…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: That's just a game that doesn't even exist. Nothing of this actually does exist. And the more that we… except for this little fruit fly that wants to, like, be in my face.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: That does exist. The more we're drawn into it, or exposed to it, and right now we're getting set up for another round of…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: they're right, and we're wrong, and we're right, and they're wrong episode in America. It's just like…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's exhausting! And if you let your energy get drawn into it, instead of just allowing things to just be and…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: If you can go to the show and just enjoy the show, regardless of the outcome.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You're gonna have a much better experience than if you're gonna try to be in part of the show and influence its outcome.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It just doesn't really matter.
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::Ashtyn Monea: I think that it does matter. It matters in the sense that we're here to have an experience, and the things that are happening in such extreme contrast and polarity are very, very informative. Like, thank you, Gaia, thank you, the third dimension, for bringing us into contact with such extremity that brings…
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::Ashtyn Monea: Even master souls to this planet to have this type of experience to ultimately
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::Ashtyn Monea: grow through. But it's like, okay, can we…
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::Ashtyn Monea: perceive the extreme through more of an observer consciousness, from a different plane of higher consciousness, or let's say, expanded consciousness, not above or below, but just fuller.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And then find the points where illusion is actually providing us a mirror for where truth lives. And then how can we take the truth pieces and fully integrate the polarities so that it's not so…
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::Ashtyn Monea: like, at war with each other, and actually each is in supportive to each other. So it's just, like, a different kind of experiencing, as you were talking about, like, kind of a watching the show. It's just from a different…
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::Ashtyn Monea: perspective.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: This is reminding me of a video I saw the other day.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I think it's…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: it's either Michelangelo or da Vinci, who created this self-supporting bridge, and I think it's, like, 7 or 8 sticks that you can make a bridge that will actually support
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: a lot of weight going over without any nails or anything. It's just the way you put it together. And…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You just look at those things, and they don't mean anything, they're just sticks.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But you put them in a certain way, and they will have… they will form…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: a tool that is very useful. So it informs you of what the possibilities are.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Without having to make a,
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: A determination of the value of the sticks by themselves.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And then they can go back to just being sticks again.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Like, you can pull things out.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: That may not seem like they have a lot of meaning, but they do have meaning.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And purpose, but then they fold back into… like…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: They fade kind of back in.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Does that make sense?
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah, I'm hearing you. Like, there's just a fuller sense of the picture that maybe we can't see when we're looking at each individual stick, or they're not in, let's say, their divine right placements to build the structure that's needed to support the weight of whatever it's holding.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, I kind of feel like that's how the world is right now. We're getting to see the sticks that will create this beautiful space, because I think we really are moving into a much
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: grander experience for all souls, but… Like.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I like to equate it to birth, you know? Birth is always bloody and painful, no matter where it's coming from.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But afterwards, it's just, like, so amazing.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Mmm.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Experience the life that comes from it.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah, it reminds me of just the process of, you know, like, a dark night of soul.
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::Ashtyn Monea: You could resist the process, and there will be far more suffering if you do so, or you can really fully surrender into what is before you, and what's being called
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::Ashtyn Monea: Through, also, for you, and receive the deeper giftings that are before you, which becomes, like, the bounty that you couldn't have possibly known before.
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::Ashtyn Monea: you were led into the void, or before you also bought them out through the void, to come back into this, like, ultimate state of bloom. And, you know, when we're going through those kind of.
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::Ashtyn Monea: deeper initiations, and we're being called into these unknown spaces. Oftentimes what happens is so much gets shaken up, and it comes to surface, and it's really loud, and it doesn't mean that the things that are coming to surface weren't there.
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::Ashtyn Monea: It's just that you were in maybe a different place of being.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And now that you're having to descend through, because the void calls us into a descend process, the chatter, now you're actually able to perceive it in a way that you couldn't before, just like, you know, if we're moving something from a place of unconscious or subconsciousness into a place of consciousness.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so, this is very much so what we are experiencing, and we have been experiencing, is, like, the chatter is getting louder, the things are becoming more obvious, they're also far more in our face, and it feels quite disruptive. Like, it can feel quite disturbing.
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::Ashtyn Monea: But if we allow ourselves to surrender and actually drop below the chatter, those are those deeper whispers of truth that are really calling us through.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And if we can allow ourselves to really get there, that's when we emerge with the soul goal. That's when we see a new paradigm. That's where we shift personally and relationally and societally.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it all starts with one person. One person, and the next person, and the next person. It just…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Often it's called waking up, but it's… so much more, and I…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I feel for people that are just starting to wake up, and they're like, oh, this is gonna be marvelous, but it's really not ever marvelous. That waking up process is almost always really painful.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Your circle of friends changes, your… the way that you, like, interact with your body.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: the mind-body connection. It's like, you suddenly realize that you have a body, and your body speaks to you.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Which, you know, so many people go through life, and they're just all in their head. It's as though their body is just this thing that moves them around, and keeps their head going.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: without recognizing that I… You have a whole nother sensory perception mechanism that is… Like, attached below your neck.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Totally. There's a huge issue with disembodiment and disassociation, and there's been many agendas to try to prevent us from actually getting fully anchored into our body, to especially include anchoring our souls.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And to our body, which is why so much of it is focused in a heady, heady, heady type of…
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::Ashtyn Monea: compartmentalization, and also a disconnection between the body is a disconnect between the feminine. An over-active mind is to…
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::Ashtyn Monea: center in a masculine way of being, even if it's a wounded masculine way of being, because there's the higher mind, which is far truer to the true masculine than the lower mind experience. And we also have the disconnection of the heart, and the disconnection of the heart is also, again, not integrating the feminine in, and so we're really being called into, as I was saying previously, collectively and personally, into
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::Ashtyn Monea: a dissent. And that dissent
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::Ashtyn Monea: also coexists with our bodies. And then when you're speaking about the awakening experience, how much is sold on the market of, like.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Like, it's going to be so amazing, you're gonna find all of your people, it's gonna be, like, the most heavenly experience of your life, and it's like, anyone who has been on the journey.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Knows that that is an illusion that's being sold to market it, because if you were to be like, hey, this is the truth of the process, a lot of people would be rather resistant to that.
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::Ashtyn Monea: But for me, the people who are attracted to me are the people who are like, I want that. Like, I want the truth, and I want nothing but the truth. I want the real process of embodying higher consciousness and nothing outside of that. Like, be clear with me, be direct with me, provide me wisdom, be further along on the path so that you've carved out certain pockets that I now am able to step into with a little bit more fluidity.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Cuz you stepped in before I have.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so this process of, like, awakening, when we have these experiences, are, as you were mentioning, perceptivity to include into what was seemingly a subtle realm is no longer subtle. Like, the level of…
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::Ashtyn Monea: stimulus that also comes with awareness is extreme, you know, especially when we've not been so connected to our sight, our body, our intuition, just seeing through the veil. That's a lot to be going through all at the same time.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And also, as you mentioned.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Contrary to what's being sold on the market, isolation is more prevalent in that space than true community.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And oftentimes, what I have found is that where people are kind of selling the idea of true community, it's what I term in my teaching fo-spirituality. It's actually more persona that's running around than it is embodiment.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so the same exact patterns that are plaguing society are in these faux-spiritual communities, and when you can see deeper, those communities are not going to be resonant for you. If anything.
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::Ashtyn Monea: You'll become a threat, a perceived threat, to the community because you can see through the persona, you can see through the lack of embodiment, you can see through the dysfunctional dynamics that are the same, but just being sold as higher consciousness.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And all of a sudden now, you're… you're wanting a desire in community maybe more than ever because of the extreme isolation, and you're needing resonance. Like, okay, does anyone understand my experience? Hello? I'm out here, I'm waving my flag around.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And yet, you're receiving the exact opposite in contrast, and in even deeper gaslight, because people are saying, no, I'm here for true community, I'm here for higher consciousness.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And that's not at all what's actually in the room with you. So this can all be so extreme, the sensitivity, the sight, the isolation, the…
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::Ashtyn Monea: Lack of community, the new experiences that you're having, and of course, we want to
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::Ashtyn Monea: be supported in these places, because where we're going is deeper than what most people will even begin to entertain, and so it's like…
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::Ashtyn Monea: we have these needs still, right? We still have a need, a human need for belonging.
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::Ashtyn Monea: How do we fill in the gap?
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, the whole gaslighting thing is huge, and you come from…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: being in community with whatever society that you have around you, because we all have some society around us. And it doesn't matter if we're talking, like, religious organizations, or the spiritual community, or whatever group that you have risen to.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Spiritually. You… You are going to move out of that community.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And you are going to not fit. It's just, like, as you move into different levels, the people that were around you before will try to hang on to you and hold you down, and it's lonely.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: The more you move up, the more lonely it is.
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::Ashtyn Monea: A thousand percent, and when you're talking about what people will try to hold onto is an old version of you. It's someone that no longer even exists.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Which is so, again, another gaslight in and of itself.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And then you start questioning yourself, am I going crazy?
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You know, it's not uncommon to feel like… and you get sick.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And things don't work right in your body, because they're waking up, and they're being used in ways, and your body's purging other things out, and making way for…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: for this transformation to happen, you know, when butterflies go into that cocoon, they turn into mush.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You know?
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Some ways, that happens to us.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Oh, a thousand percent I've been there, like, a million bazillion times over. Definitely is very, a very real experience.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Something that I say is, you know, belong to your own soul, not a sick society. And this is what you're meaning, where you're like, hey, like, I'm not fitting anymore. But where you are landing.
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::Ashtyn Monea: is into your actual essence. You're landing deeper into truth, you're landing deeper in your body, you're landing deeper into your true path and your actual purpose, because that energy that has the agenda of calling us out, what is it calling us out of? Well, we've mentioned many things here, but it's also connected to your true path and your true purpose, like, why you're even here on Earth.
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::Ashtyn Monea: At this time. And in order for us to really align with what that is for us, we have to come into a soul-level individuation.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And when we're in this wild time between an old paradigm and new paradigm emerging, it means you have to also individuate
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::Ashtyn Monea: from the dysfunction, from the illusion, in order to click into place in your own alignment with… within your own alignment also exists the alignment of a new paradigm. And so it is, like, almost…
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::Ashtyn Monea: yeah, I'm not fitting in this puzzle anymore. I think there might be a puzzle over here that's starting to be built, and my piece might fit really well over there, but it no longer fits over here.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Kind of like timelines. You know that movie, Everything All at Once?
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I can never remember that title, but it's… we switch timelines all the time in our lives, and it may look like things are the same, but they're not.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: you're different, therefore your whole paradigm is different. And it… it happens multiple times.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it's like, you know, the movies where they show up and everything's different. All the people are the same, but they're holding different roles. It doesn't make them bad or good, it's just that they're… in this paradigm, they hold a different role than they did in the paradigm you were just in.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And you have to adjust to that.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And you are a different person. You are playing a different role in this paradigm. And we constantly move through paradigms, and if you're doing it purposefully, you can jump a couple paradigms
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: In the… in the scheme of things, and then it's like…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's kind of jolting, rather than,
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Smooth in terms of the transitions.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah, this is also why I'm a huge proponent for integration, because I've watched people do quantum leaps into new timelines and paradigms. I'm very aware of timelines, I can see them, I sense them, I can, you know, I'm walking through multiple timelines at the same time in my life, often.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so I'm also able to sense that in other people, and I've watched people have these amazing quantum leaps, and it's like, wow, you just went really fast, really quick, but they didn't put in place the stepping stones. So what'll happen is they'll go, whoop!
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::Ashtyn Monea: right back.
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::Ashtyn Monea: to an old kind of timeline, an old version of themselves, they don't have the foundation, the anchor, the stability, the ground-level skillfulness, boundaries, communication, like, the true forms of embodiment.
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::Ashtyn Monea: that are capable of anchoring that timeline. So yeah, you could totally travel and, poof really quickly into a new timeline. You could get, like, a taste of it, but if you can't hold it.
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::Ashtyn Monea: It's momentary.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And we could share this with the listeners in terms of people that, like, win the lottery. They've moved from one timeline to another, but they didn't anchor in how to get there and to maintain that.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So they almost always end up falling back to the timeline that they were originally on, and they're like, I don't understand how this happened.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it's a quantum movement through timelines, and until people really start to grasp this concept of how life functions in this realm.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: They're… they're never going to be able to, like, move forward and… and have it stick.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: as they're going in different timelines. And I think that's what you help people with, right?
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::Ashtyn Monea: A thousand percent. So, I mean, I say I'm a multidimensional baddie, because I am. Like, I work with highly intuitive, and everyone's on a spectrum, right? But the more intuitive you are, the more insightful you are, the more consciously embodied you are, the less resources you have. I am that rare-to-find person.
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::Ashtyn Monea: that people are like, where does that person exist that can actually support me at the level I am? And I am there. Those are the people I help.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And again, you could be a new awakener. I can still help you, of course, right? But this kind of multidimensional nature with inside of myself is deeply
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::Ashtyn Monea: anchored. I started as an anchor. I started at ground, and then I moved and worked my way up, and then I also am full integration in every direction. Vertical plane, horizontal plane, spiral, masculine, feminine, light, dark, heart, fire. Like, I could go on and on and on.
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::Ashtyn Monea: this is really the place by which I teach. It's the foundation, is integration. And so, when someone is maybe more cosmic in their orientation, I'm able to help them land into their body, anchor in their purpose, be clear in how they speak.
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::Ashtyn Monea: understand relational dynamics in a way that they haven't been able to before, to really navigate those ground-level challenges, the professional path and business creation. And if someone's more anchored in their original orientation, I'm also able to help them
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::Ashtyn Monea: Get into attunement, feeling sensation, their intuition, rediscover, quantumly who they are to include multidimensional
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::Ashtyn Monea: perception. I've had clients who have never had a single past life experience before, and in one session.
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::Ashtyn Monea: has messaged me after, and I've been like, I just experienced multiple lifetimes back
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::Ashtyn Monea: to back, to back. Why? Because, ultimately, I'm a magnet and I'm an anchor. I'm literally drawing in your fullest nature in every direction. And so, how my field operates is to call really full, soul-bodied humans into this ground reality, because the only way we're actually going to anchor a new paradigm is if we do that.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so, absolutely, a thousand percent, this is the place where my work is…
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::Ashtyn Monea: I would say pretty rare to find, is that in the comprehensive nature of integration that I'm able to offer in every single direction, and though I could be considered woo-woo, I am so grounded, I am
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::Ashtyn Monea: amazing relative to relationships, like, I have a background in psychology, marriage, and family therapy, but it just also wasn't full enough for me, because it didn't include the other realms. And so, you know, I'm able to help people at ground.
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::Ashtyn Monea: cosmic, every direction, and it's like, where do you find that? Like, oh, where does that exist? Exist here. And I love it, I love doing it.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love that you… you offer this to people, and there aren't a lot of people that…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Probably get what you're talking about.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But I respect what you're doing, because I know that
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: There aren't that many people out there that are that… High… at that level.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Where they can say, here, just, like.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Let me hold your hand, and I'm going to show you how to take that step, that next step, that you're sitting right here on the edge of the ledge, and you know you can fly.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But you're not confident, I'll just, like, swoop underneath you, and we'll go, and then all will be gone, and you'll still be flying.
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::Ashtyn Monea: A thousand percent. And, you know, it's also…
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::Ashtyn Monea: like, I know that sometimes it depends on where I'm speaking from. I can speak from a pretty grounded level, where people who aren't even spiritual can understand things that I'm saying, and then there's other places where I'm speaking, like, look, I'm going up here at this level.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And sometimes people feel unmet, but I'm speaking to a larger audience that has… it's a… there's a full spectrum out there, right?
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so, like, if you are listening and you're feeling like, I don't really understand this part, I would encourage you to just…
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::Ashtyn Monea: Open up the space to know that there are things here for you to receive that can absolutely land later in another moment, and you will fully understand.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And this is also how I work with my clients. I soul-level attune. I'm attuning to you at the deepest level.
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::Ashtyn Monea: the truth of your nature, because I can really see you, and I can really meet you in those places. And so, wherever you're at on your journey, whatever it is that you're navigating through, I'm able to meet you there, because if I'm working with you in a space that's like.
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::Ashtyn Monea: one-on-one, or even in my group spaces, I offer intuitive coaching and group spaces that I hold.
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::Ashtyn Monea: You're receiving time, me and you, and I am going to speak to the place that is needed for you.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And I'm able to touch into the very essence of the moment and what life is trying to divinely orchestrate around you so that you can receive it to the highest degree. Like, this is what's on the table for you. And I think that's really important. You know, that soul-level attunement is…
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::Ashtyn Monea: Essential in facilitation. And also, unfortunately, a lot of practitioners don't have that.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, there's so many people that talk about things like manifesting, and the law of attraction, and all of these things that I do believe
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: They exist in the world, but usually it has to do with
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: moving through timelines more than just wishing, and it usually ends up people are wishing for things. From their… They may say, yeah, from their head.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Go ahead.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Or they may be like, oh, I can totally feel it, I'm putting myself in that experience. It's… there's… it's different.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: there's… There's mechanisms, and if you really do want to, like, exist in a different paradigm.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: You have to do the work.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And it is work. I mean, there's things that you physically have to do, and experiences that you have to have to get to that point where you can be ready
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: to experience the paradigm that you think you want to experience. And…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I have a cautionary tale for this. You may think you want to be XYZ, or you want to live in whatever. Everything has its drawbacks.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So, you may just be looking at the rosy picture, but you're not… you're not thinking about all of the other details that are involved with having that experience, because no experience is, like, all one thing or another.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Like, people don't…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: they don't think about that. It's like, you know, the person that wants the really big house.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Yeah, you can have a really big house. I've had really big houses in my life. I've manifested really big houses.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: a pain in the ass, because you have to clean them. And there's, you know, when you have 7 bathrooms in your house, and 5 people.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: who want to use every single bathroom? Let me tell you, a house with two bedrooms and 1 bathroom? Much better. You're not spending all your time dealing with keeping this asset, like.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I want a really big house. I want a really big piece of property without thinking, you know, how are you managing and stewarding it?
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And the taxes.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And all the other little pieces that go with
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: the experience that you think you want to have. And this goes with, like, anything
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Something that you think you want to manifest.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: To really think it through.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And… and move into that space.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And that's where you come in.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah, it's the difference between fantasy and what I call actuality.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And actuality has anchor, it has ground. Fantasy is either in the head, or it's, like, way out in outer space.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And so, what is a component that is missing? Of course, it's holding. So it's like, if you're envisioning, I want this thing, then there should be a follow-up question. Am I in the place to actually hold that thing?
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::Ashtyn Monea: Because it requires holding, just like you're talking about. There's an actual process holding. The money example that you're talking about, the lottery, oftentimes people don't have a holding capacity for the actual amount of money that's being come in, and so that's why they lose it, because they can't hold it. And those things are masculine integration.
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::Ashtyn Monea: It's ground-level experiencing, and so we can't…
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::Ashtyn Monea: If we're in one quadrant, not another, we don't have the integrative piece.
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::Ashtyn Monea: that we need to comprehensively actually embody the thing that we're saying that we ultimately want and desire. And I think this is also what you're pointing to, where there's a lot of people who speak about manifestation, but they're not speaking… they're speaking about it from a magic wand experience. Not…
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::Ashtyn Monea: an embodiment experience. And you can say something like, oh, well, I want to be aligned with that. Okay, what does it take?
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::Ashtyn Monea: to be aligned with that. And these processes, you could say, I want to be aligned with this thing, it's like, that process…
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::Ashtyn Monea: What if someone came behind you and said, okay, if you want to be aligned with that, it's gonna take you 3 years, it's gonna take you 4, initiations that go deep, deep in the dark, it's gonna take all of your relationships, your current, professional path, it's gonna… right? Then would you be like, yes, still? Because that's the real yes.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: there's… there's just… Stuff that you have to be willing to, in some cases, give up.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And in some cases, embrace.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And in any experience that you want to have, like, you know, you look at kids and they say.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: we'll just use this as an example, but somebody says, I want to be a doctor.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And in order to be a doctor, you have to start young, usually, because you have to do well in school, in the maths and sciences.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Because you have to be able to train your brain to work in a certain way. So you're starting young, even if you do other things, you have to have that foundation set.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And not everybody is… Comes to this realm equipped To do that exercise.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Can they? Maybe, but you really have to be molded
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: in that way, in the beginning. And then there's, you know.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: high school and college and other experiences that you're having, that also at your connections that you're making, because doctors just don't come out of nowhere. You have to be connected to people who can help you get into the,
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: The medical systems that you may want to be in, because there's lots of different
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: all of… Manifesting is like that, though.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: People need to understand that there's processes to get.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: To wherever it is you want to experience.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yep, a thousand percent on the stepping stones and the things that are really needed to get you to ultimately what it is that you desire. I also think that an important component here, relative to what you just shared, is…
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::Ashtyn Monea: may have even decided, in a way, before we arrived Earthside, that this is what we wanted. There… we're gonna feel…
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::Ashtyn Monea: the resistance of that. Like, in your example, if you're not a science or math-minded person, this is going to, like, your whole nervous system's likely gonna shut down. Like, your body's gonna shut down.
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::Ashtyn Monea: I… I will die. Like, I will die if I don't live my true path and purpose, and I have clients that that's absolutely also their experience. But what happens when we're taught that
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::Ashtyn Monea: like, taught to be outside of our body and not listen to the wisdom of our body. We'll try to press against the truth of our nature and the things that are actually calling us in, like these building blocks that may not physically have been manifested yet, but they are behind the scenes to support our soul and its true path and purpose.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And, you know, it's like, okay, now I'm getting really, really ill because I'm coming out of alignment, but how would you even…
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::Ashtyn Monea: how would you even know if you don't have the experience of feeling into the wisdom of your body? You'll just think, I'm getting sick for no reason, and I think both of us know that we don't just get sick for no reason. There are certainly deeper reasons why our body is having the experience that our body is having.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's dis-ease. It's not… There's a million labels for things that…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Usually, it's designed to sell you something.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: But when your body is feeling at dis-ease with itself.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Which is what it is, and you recognize it, it's either trying to purge something, or it's trying to heal something.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And if we don't give it space.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: The things that were…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We're thinking in our heads, because everything we think produces chemicals that affects the rest of our body.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's like… it's like smiling is so important. When you smile, it physically changes the chemistry in your body.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: or laugh, or hold your arms out really high, or stand in these power poses. It's… it has to do with changing…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Because we're bioelectrical beings, having… A spiritual experience.
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::Ashtyn Monea: I think this is also where it's important to mention, like, the power of somatic work, you know? It's like…
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::Ashtyn Monea: For me, in my own kind of teachings and the way that I work, for me, somatic is where the body meets energetic.
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::Ashtyn Monea: So it's the unseen and also the seen. And there are ways in which our body can also autorespond, just like our mind does, into certain kind of positions.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And if we are in a moment of something that's deeply stressful, our body might go into a position that it did in childhood, that's just, like, the way it auto-responds.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And then there's, like, the body-brain connection, and also emotions, that automatically also follow the body. And so, if we can reclaim our connection to the wisdom of our body, this is also where we can start really working with the wisdom of somatics.
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::Ashtyn Monea: To reorganize our automatic mental responses, because the mind will always follow the body.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love that.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Man, I could talk to you all afternoon. This is just like, this is… this is where I like to hang.
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::Ashtyn Monea: I hear you, me too!
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: So, people can, get your free newsletter over at TrueSelfEmbodied.com, right?
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yes.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Talk a little bit about that.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Absolutely. So, head over to TrueSelfEmbodied.com.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And you can subscribe to my monthly newsletter. This is not, like, a typical monthly newsletter, y'all. This is not, like, just getting on my email list. This is value. Like, I provide value. So, you're getting a written transmission with a video transmission every single month. Sometimes it's following collective tide themes, so you might be feeling certain things in the field.
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::Ashtyn Monea: And I'm helping you leverage it for your personal process. It also might be, like, deep, deep teachings that really people pay for, right? And so I essentially describe this as being enrolled.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Ongoingly, in a course for higher consciousness. That's really what my newsletter is. So, high, high, high value, definitely recommend it. TrueSelfEmbbody.com.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Love it. And people can find out how to work with you through that link as well, so if they want to.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Connect with you and explore how…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Joining your communities or working one-on-one with you would look.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: That's…
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yeah, I'll say it's all there except for what I keep hidden in the background.
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::Ashtyn Monea: So there are certain offerings that I allow the public to step into and access, like my one-on-one SEER session, my TIE, which is the Integrative Evolutionary Membership Group, and then other groups that I'm facilitating courses, etc. But there's deeper, just like we were talking about, like, there's deeper processes that we're being called into, and so there are other pathways that I don't actually share publicly on my website.
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::Ashtyn Monea: You have to enter my world, enter my work, and then things will really start to open up.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: I love that. I… just… Sometimes people just aren't really ready for… the full… Firehose effect.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It would just, like…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It just blows them away, and then they're, like, standing there, and they have no idea what hit them.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Versus just introducing it In a way that people can…
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Take small, small steps and… and work their way into, like, one little timeline step to another before you start leaping timelines.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: And drop in… drop in your stepping stones along the way, so you know how to… to… to get there safely.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: We'll put it that way.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Yes, exactly, Jill. It's literally been built into this conversation that we've been having today. I build my business with true transformation and embodiment, and also recognizing how initiation moves, how digestion moves, also that I am a high-caliber initiation, and what that can be like, and so I build that
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::Ashtyn Monea: Into my business, so that ultimately.
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::Ashtyn Monea: The flow of it in your own process, wherever you're at, it will make sense.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Perfect. Thank you so much for joining us today, Ashton.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: It's been amazing.
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::Ashtyn Monea: Jill. Yeah, so glad we did this.
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Me too. To learn more about Ashton and to get her free newsletter with the monthly video transmissions, please visit TrueselfEmbodied.com, and we'll be sure to put that link in the show notes below. Thanks for tuning in with us today to the UWorld Order Showcase podcast. If you're ready to amplify your voice, monetize your mission, and start attracting premium clients, your next step is simple. Head to coachesalchemist.com and
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::Jill Hart-The Coach's Alchemist: Be sure to join us for our next episode as we share what others are doing to raise the global frequency, and remember, change begins with you. You have all the power to change the world. Start today, and get visible.
